Over a thirty-year marriage, it is highly likely one or both of you will face a job loss, a massive career shift, or burnout.
Over a thirty-year marriage, it is highly likely one or both of you will face a job loss, a massive career shift, or burnout.When your spouse is facing professional failure, they are likely wrestling with severe blows to their ego. Your job is not to immediately fix their resume; your job is to be their safe harbor.
Reassure them that their value to you is not tied to their paycheck. Step up your financial contributions if needed without resentment, and give them the grace to pivot and find their footing again.
